Fitting in
fitting in
"external measures" - its a lot more than grades. its how you act, speak ("slang"), clothes you wear, your overall looks (sooo many women blonde their hair nowadays) to a certain beauty standard, and the drugs you take (if you dont smoke [weed] drink take heavy drugs drink coffee tea youre not on anyones frequency). it wasnt until i started smoking cigarettes and drinking alcohol and coffee in 2023 (at age 40) that i got my first girlfriend. but im also a geek so i have spent most of my life in front of a computer. i also interacted mostly with americans online before, then its hard to meet someone IRL.
ref: Gabor Maté - ”the Myth of Normal. Illness, health and healing in a toxic culture”
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